Growth Barriers For Churches

Posted by on January 26, 2016

There are many things that can keep a church from growing and reaching its potential.  The most obvious is for whatever reason God is not able to bless the work and all you are left with is human effort and nothing supernatural can happen.

The list of other real issues includes lack of resources in the areas of staffing, programming and facilities that will prevent you from reaching the next level.  Oh by the way, every significant increase of 500 people creates an entirely new list of different challenges that must be addressed in all of these areas.

Sometimes the problem is that a church gets out of balance in any one of these areas to the detriment of all the others.  The most obvious is over building your site and incurring too much debt that strangles everything else you are trying to accomplish.

The single most significant issue beyond the blessings of God is the constantly changing role of the pastor and the people.  In most small churches the pastor does the ministry and the people run the church.  For any church to reach its potential the pastor must do the leading and the people must be equipped to do the ministry.

In my experience far too many times when this ongoing transition breaks down the primary blame is placed on the people and their unwillingness to follow.  The hard cold truth is the reason they are not following is there is not a leader in place that has the character and integrity to say clearly come follow me as I follow Christ.

7 Keys To Marriage Maintenance

Posted by on January 25, 2016

I have now been married for 44 years and still realize that if I don’t evaluate the basics on a regular basis we can easily get into trouble.  Never assume that you have reached a point where it’s not important to do the little things because in a great marriage the little is really the big.  Mark Merrill has another great post:

“But owning a car also means learning how to maintain the car to keep it running well for a long time. In the same way, it’s critical to regularly maintain your marriage so it will last for life. So here are 7 keys to marriage maintenance.”

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Leaders Effectiveness In Strategy Or Execution

Posted by on January 22, 2016

There are clearly two extremes in the leadership world today.  Some leaders are incredibly creative and can translate that into a workable strategy.  Others are wildly successful in getting the ball over the goal line and meeting expectations.  This HBR post reveals some harsh reality about leaders that needs to be understood:

“In a 2013 survey of nearly 700 executives across a variety of industries, our firm asked respondents to rate the effectiveness of the top leaders of their companies. How many excelled at strategy? How many excelled at execution? The results are shown in the chart below.”

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How To Have A Winning Attitude

Posted by on January 20, 2016

Lou Holtz the famous football coach once said, “Ability is what you’re capable of doing, motivation determines what you do and attitude determines how well you do it.” We have heard all our lives how important a role our attitude plays in everything we do every day.

In John Maxwell’s book The Winning Attitude he says that it is absolutely your key to personal success.  His list several key principles about how attitude impacts every part of our lives:

  1. Our attitude determines our approach to life
  2. Our attitude determines our relationships with people
  3. Often our attitude is the only difference between success and failure
  4. Our attitude at the beginning of a task will affect its outcome more than anything else
  5. Our attitude can turn our problems into blessings
  6. Our attitude can give us an uncommonly positive perspective

Maintaing the proper perspective is probably the most important one for me.  We are all going to encounter problems and setbacks in our lives.  It is very important to remember when you are going through difficult times not to focus on what you have lost but what you still have to be thankful for all around you.  When you choose to see the glass for the way it is more than half full it will give you the perspective you need to deal with all the other issues.

I found the following to be very helpful about What is an attitude?

It is the “advance man” of our true selves

Its roots are inward but its fruit is outward

It is our best friend or our worst enemy

It is more honest and more consistent that our words

It is an outward look based on past experiences

It is a thing which draws people to us or repels them away

It is never content until it is expressed

It is the librarian of our past

It is the speaker of our present

It is the prophet of our future

The Power Of Storytelling

Posted by on January 19, 2016

Seth Godin has famously said that today with the rise of social media your customers are your sales force.  There has never been a time if our customers were not satisfied that we could sustain the relationship.  However, today by people talking to others about you in a positive way the message multiplies.

I just had a great experience last week speaking on character driven leadership for YP.com sales managers in Atlanta.  They have effective leaders that are clearly in tune with the marketplace and are transforming a great organization.

Scott Hines one of their Regional Vice Presidents said: “Dan’s leadership presentation was right on target.  His years of study and presenting leadership principles make him uniquely effective in influencing the audience.

He gets right to the key of leadership.  His character driven leadership series is so relevant to today’s culture.  Dan is a very effective presenter and leaves the audience with key takeaways to use to develop others.

Dan thanks for spending time with the team and we are already using the tools and putting the words into action.”

I love developing leaders and investing my life with people who want to do great things and really make a difference.

5 Major Goal Setting Myths

Posted by on January 15, 2016

This post by Michael Hyatt reminded me of several mistakes I have made over the years in setting goals.  The process we use many times is more of a hindrance to success than the challenge of the goals themselves.  See if you find yourself in this post and lets get better at getting the important things accomplished:

When it comes to making progress towards what matters most in life, there are at least five major myths we need to avoid like quicksand.

Over the years, I’ve seen these rob countless people of happiness, success, and significance—me included. Have you fallen for any of these?

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Change Management And Leadership Development Have To Mesh

Posted by on January 12, 2016

Operating in silos is always a dangerous thing in any leadership culture.  This is never more true than trying to lead an organization through a major change initiative.  It can feel extremely top down and in reality it’s a great opportunity for leadership development. Great HBR post:

Leadership development and change management tend to be top priorities for many organizations. In spite of this, a majority of organizations tend to fall far short of their goals for both. One major reason organizations struggle is because they treat both leadership development and change management as separate rather than interrelated challenges.

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In Search For The Silver Bullet

Posted by on January 11, 2016

In Jim Collins latest book How The Mighty Fall he talks about companies that start on a systematic downward spiral that leads ultimately to total failure as an organization.  One common problem he found is that when they finally realize they are in serious trouble rather than dealing with real problems they search for the quick fix approach of finding the right silver bullet.

When full blown panic sets in there is a frantic search for several silver bullets that can be dramatic big moves such as game changing acquisitions or a risky new strategy or an exciting innovation or new leadership, anything that can save us.  The following is list of several silver bullets observed:

  1.  Grasping for a Leader as Savior:  The board responds to threats and setbacks by searching for a charismatic leader and an outside savior.
  2. Panic and Haste:  Instead of being calm, deliberate, and disciplined, people exhibit hasty, reactive behavior, bordering on panic.
  3. Radical Change and Revolution with Fanfare:  The language of revolution and radical change characterizes the new era: New Programs! New cultures! New Strategies!
  4. Hype Precedes Results:  Instead of setting expectations low—underscoring the duration and difficulty of the turnaround—leaders hype their visions initiating a pattern of overpromising and under delivering.
  5. Initial Upswing Followed by Disappointments:  There is an initial burst of positive results, but they do not last; dashed hope follows dashed hope; the organization achieves no buildup, no cumulative momentum.
  6. Confusion and Cynicism:  People cannot easily articulate what the organization stands for; core values have eroded to the point of irrelevance; the organization has become just another place to work.

There are no quick fixes or silver bullets for organizations that have complex long term problems that have built up for decades.  The new realities of the global economy did not create these problems it merely acted as a catalyst to reveal them.

5 Practices Of The Leadership Challenge

Posted by on January 8, 2016

 

I recently became certified to become a trainer of The Leadership Challenge materials by James Kouzes and Barry Posner.  Although this book was written several years ago, its timeless leadership principles are just as relevant today as ever.

This very exhaustive book centers around these five simple but very powerful practices:

Model The Way-Find your voice by clarifying your personal values and set the example by aligning actions with shared values.

Inspire a Shard Vision-Envision the future by imagining exciting and ennobling possibilities and enlist others in a common vision by appealing to shared aspirations.

Challenge The Process-Search for opportunities by seeking innovative ways to change, grow, and improve and experiment and take risks by constantly generating small wins and learning from mistakes.

Enable Others to Act-Foster collaboration by promoting cooperative goals and building trust.  Strengthen others by sharing power and discretion.

Encourage The Heart-Recognize contributions by showing appreciation for individual excellence and celebrate the values and victories by creating a spirit of community.

I find this an excellent framework for all the leadership coaching and training that I do and I highly recommend that you implement these practices this new year.

 

Major Conflict Management Mistake

Posted by on January 6, 2016

At times we all have difficulty working with other people especially in stress charged environments.  It is very easy especially as a leader to fall into the bad habit of making negative comments about people especially when they are not present.

This type of conflict resolution will do nothing but add to the problem and ultimately destroy your leadership credibility.  When anyone hears you making destructive comments about another person who is not there, they too realize that one day they will not be there either.

The principle that I have adopted is that if I have something negative to say to another person I will go directly to them and talk about it privately.  If it is not a big enough deal for me to go and talk privately then it should not be a big enough deal to talk with others.

This one discipline has eliminated at least seventy-five percent of my need to make negative comments  to other people and almost completely stopped the destructive habit of public personal criticism of others.  Now when I do need to talk with someone about a real performance issue my motives are right and my methods are positive.