Category Archive: Pastoral Leadership

The Leaders Need For Humility

Posted by on February 26, 2014

The days of strong driven positional leadership are just about over.  Yes, there are still times leaders need to be directive but Jim Collins proved that one of the major character qualities of all great leaders is humility.  John Maxwell has a great post that will be helpful for your reading:

“When people talk about leadership, they don’t use the word “humility” very often. More likely, they describe a leader as strong or focused or ambitious. They would probably say the leader is confident or assertive. “Humble” may not ever come up, and if it does, it might not be used as a compliment.”

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The 5 Levels Of Leadership

Posted by on December 18, 2013

There is no doubt that people follow their leaders for totally different reasons.  In Good To Great, Jim Collins talks about Level 5 leaders who demonstrate high character and an iron will to get things done.  Positional leadership is the weakest level of commitment and will never be effective.  John Maxwell gives us another helpful model that can help us to be more effective:

“I came up with the idea of five distinct levels of leadership many years ago, and first described the concept in a book inDeveloping the Leader Within You. And in 2011, I devoted an entire book, The 5 Levels of Leadership, to exploring the levels – their upsides, downsides, the best behaviors for that level, the beliefs that help a leader move up to the next level, and how the level relates to the Laws of Leadership.”

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How To Stop Being A People Pleasing Pastor

Posted by on December 5, 2013

Leading the local church may be the single most difficult leadership assignment I know.  Think about it, your customers are your workforce and your financial supporters.  With that reality its easy to see when pastors fall into the trap of trying to please everyone.  Ron Edmondson has some helpful advice on how to deal with this problem:

 “I recognize I am a People Pleaser Pastor. How do I turn the tide on this? How do I stop? I am seeing tension mounting on the team. There is frustration on our staff and it is even spilling over to our spouses, and my vision has hit a brick wall. I really want to move away from this but I am finding it most difficult.”

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Sports Vs. Church

Posted by on November 29, 2013

I have to admit that I am more than a little old school on this one.  I get the whole idea that the family is the primary platform for spiritual growth and that character can be built in sports.  However, it still bothers me when I see families making choices that seem to have very little to do with discipleship and more to do with culture.  This blog post by Family Discipleship Path will at least challenge your thinking:

“WARNING: The following may make you uncomfortable…may even make you mad!

Last Sunday morning I found myself sitting on a soccer field with one of my children for a tournament game. It was a beautiful morning. The sun was shining. I was enjoying some fabulous coffee.

I was also experiencing great frustration and conflict.”

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7 Suggestions When Church Is In Decline

Posted by on November 26, 2013

All churches at some point in time stall in their growth and lose their momentum.  The key is to discover why and try to make the necessary changes before real decline sets it.  If you find yourself in this situation, Ron Edmondson’s post will be very helpful:

“There are no cookie-cutter solutions for reversing a church in decline. Churches have unique characteristics, because they have different people. They are different reasons that cause decline. It could be anything from poor leadership, to being locked into the traditions of men or simply a change in population in the community.”

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Vision More Than Words

Posted by on November 6, 2013

In the end everyone is watching to make sure our walk equals our talk.  Any good leader can give a great speech but the payoff is are they living out what they say is important.  Mark Miller challenges us to look beyond what we say to what we do as leaders:

One of the never-ending responsibilities of a leader is to remind people what we’re trying to accomplish and why it matters. This is the essence of vision casting. Unfortunately, most leaders under communicate their preferred picture of the future.

If the leader is sold out to the accomplishment of the vision, why would he or she under-communicate it? There are probably several contributing factors to this phenomena.

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5 Ways Leaders Can Build Trust

Posted by on October 30, 2013

In the old days of leadership people simply led out of the power of their position and that was it.  Today its more about influence and there is no greater factor in gaining influence than building trust with the people you lead.  Joseph Lalonde talks about practical principles that allow us to create this valuable asset in leadership:

Trust is essential for any leader. Without trust, you can’t lead anyone willingly.

I started my new job July 29th, 2013. I was nervous, excited, fearful, but most of all, ready for the challenge. I was scared because it’s something new. Anxiety and worries follow fear with any new endeavor. The combination of fear, anxiety, worries is a great recipe for mistakes and missed opportunities at a new job.

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4 Reasons Why Timing Is Everything

Posted by on September 27, 2013

In many situations leaders know what needs to be done to move forward and even how it should be done but they fail on the when it should be done question.  If you try to put a major change initiative in place that is really needed but the climate for change is not urgent then a very good idea is going to die and the organization will continue to fail.

In John Maxwell’s book on The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership he talks about the Law of Timing.  According to Maxwell great leaders recognize that when to lead is as important as what to do and where to go.  Every time a leader makes a move, there are really only four outcomes that can result:

  1.  The wrong action at the wrong time leads to disaster.
  2. The right action at the wrong time brings resistance.
  3. The wrong action at the right time is a mistake.
  4. The right action at the right time results in success.

Timing is also very important in our personal lives when we are faced with a major decision or even a relationship issue that needs to be resolved.  Sometimes because we think we are right about something that gives us a blank check on saying something to the other person whenever we want.

We must say the right thing in the right way but most important at the right time.  When our teenagers come home with very bad test score in tears, it is probably not the right time for the thirty minute lecture on WHY IT IS IMPORTANT TO STUDY!!!!

How do you practice this discipline in your life?

Three Common Mistakes Pastors Make

Posted by on September 12, 2013

Pastoral leadership is hard enough and there are so many different ideas that they have to filter through. The temptation is when things are not working well to try the latest and greatest new idea only to see it fail as well.  Eric Geiger deals with this common mistake as well as two other important ones:

“I was recently honored to discuss leadership on a panel at the Southern Baptist Pastors Conference with Greg Matte, Rodney Woo, and Jack Graham. People submitted questions beforehand, and one of the questions that Pastor Greg sent my way was “What are the most common mistakes pastors make?” Here are three:

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How To Lead The Interview Process

Posted by on August 5, 2013

When it is all said and done all potential employees will be evaluated under the two broad categories of character and competency.  The more important of the two is character because you can help most people through training to improve their skill set but you may never be able to overcome who they are as a person.

Once you have narrowed the number of resumes down to the people that you may be interested in it is very helpful to conduct an initial phone interview.  It is very important to learn how to ask open ended questions that will allow the person to talk beyond the typical scripted answers.  As quickly as possible find out what they are passionate about and what they are capable of doing.

The next step is to send them a series of questions and assessment tools that will give you an even clearer understanding of the person’s strengths and personality tendencies.  This should be compared to a very detailed reference resource form that looks for the not so obvious information.  A good question might be if you were to see them in a totally different field of work what would it be and why?

By the time you get to a face to face interview the issue is more about character and chemistry than it is competency.  I have found it very beneficial to involve other team members in this process to see how they read the fit for our organizational culture.

I would never hire anyone for any kind of significant role without first meeting their spouse.  Seeing a couple interact with each other can tell you a lot about the person.  Probably one of the most important things to do is get the person in several casual settings where they will not have their game face on and you can listen and observe how they interact with other people.

This entire process could take several months but remember the only thing worse than not having a position filled is to have it filled with the wrong person.  When in doubt move on to the next person because as a leader your gut is probably right.

What practical steps do you include in this vital process?