The celebrity super outgoing leadership style was desired by all but found by few. It was assumed they had IT and the rest of us did not. The groundbreaking research by Jim Collins destroyed this myth maybe more than any other. Courtney Seiter does a great job of taking this even further:
“Scholars are coming to see (confidence) as an essential element of internal wellbeing and happiness, a necessity for a fulfilled life. Without it you can’t achieve flow, the almost euphoric state described by psychologist Mihaly Csiksgentmihalyi as perfect concentration; the alignment of one’s skills with the task at hand.”